Stop talking about your ex, your kids, your money, etc. Some therapy, meditation, or a little alone time wouldn't be the worst thing in the world for you.
We have been divorced for 2 years and although it saddens me that my family has been broken apart, I am happy that my ex and I have have managed to be civil enough to make it okay for the kids.
Listening and wanting to know everything about her earns you major points." GF #3: "Keep an open mind and heart.
Let go of your fear and allow yourself to love again." Here's the good news: Chicks dig fellas in their 50s.
Even though I'm talking to the guys here, many of these points apply to you too. Dating in midlife isn't always easy, but at least you're all in it together, and you can all make it great.
So men, before you break out into a cold sweat, know that all this is well intended and researched. Since I got married for the first time at 51, I can speak from experience when it comes to dating men in their 50s.
Sure it will start with great sex and they will make you feel “alive” and young but proceed with caution.